Before starting coaching, I felt trapped, isolated and not in control. I had lost my confidence, had no sense of direction and just felt unfulfilled and unsatisfied with everything. I would always say I was going to do things then not do them.
Without Erika, I would have not left a job that I felt like I outgrew a long time ago and would have stayed where I wasn’t appreciated. She gave me the confidence to do so. She helped me accept myself more by being self compassionate, realise it isn’t selfish to take breaks or do things for me. She helped me get clear on my goals and stay accountable to them. I have realised the journey is just as important as the destination, that I am capable and can cope in any given situation. I know I have options, can always go back to something and that it is okay to leave something that is not serving me anymore. She supported me to make better decisions, work on my self limiting beliefs, become a better problem solver and just go for things, no matter the outcome. I now trust myself more and I am excited to continue my journey. Whereas, before I didn’t think I had any skills or even much of a future. I now understand what I want and how to achieve those goals. I’m more willing to explore my options and go for things even if I’m scared. I now realise it’s better to try than not know. I can’t thank Erika enough. She made every phone call feel like a safe space.